Archives for September 2011

>Is it me???

Yeah, it’s you – partly. I mean, no matter how screwed up your partner is, you’re the one who chose them in the first place, so you must be at least equally screwed up, right?! But before you drown your sorrows in the concoction of your choice (i.e.; ice cream with mashed-up candy bars, mmm…) consider this:

The person you are today is a different version of the one who said, “I do”; it’s you, but better, wiser, full of new …

>I freaking hate my boss!

I used to work with a woman who routinely made people cry, seethe and tear their hair out. Nobody liked her, not even her boss… people had tried to get her fired, and failed, so they stopped trying. It seemed hopeless, inescapable. If you’re being abused all day at work, with no end in sight, it’s really REALLY hard to come home to be nice to the people who matter most to you (that’s your family, btw…)

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>Your last day on earth…

…When the planes hit the Twin Towers, none of the phone calls from people on board were messages of hate or revenge, they were all messages of love

…General opinion makes out that we live in a world of hatred and greed; I don’t see that. Seems to me that love is everywhere. Often it’s not particularly dignified or newsworthy but it’s always there

lf you look for it, I’ve got a sneaky feeling you’ll find that love actually is all around.”

>the September issue

If you could do a ‘makeover‘ on just ONE ASPECT of your relationship, what would it be? If you could rip that feature out of your relationship, stuff it in a bag and toss it forever, what would your ‘new and improved’ relationship look like? How much lighter would you feel?

We really love complaining about what our partner is doing wrong, but at some point it’s going to become boring and nobody’s going to want to hang out with you