Tag: stupid fights

  • >We both need to be right!

    >We both need to be right!

    There is a sister version of this, which is known as, “If you’re right, then I must be wrong.” And the extended version, “I am always right.” The pattern in this relationship generally consists of both partners insisting that their viewpoint is the “right” one, and should be adhered to/followed. Words like ‘stubborn’ and ‘bull-headed’…

  • >Yankee Stadium… Naked

    “…I love you… I am now so sorry. I am aware of how my behavior and my choices could have appeared to you and been experienced by you as betrayal. Please forgive me.” These were the words of Iyanla Vanzant to Oprah on her show last week. Oprah’s response? “You are already forgiven” Oh, soooo…

  • >Stop texting your s**t!

    How is it a good idea to go off on your partner in twenty-word sound bytes that can be soooooooo easily misunderstood?! ‘Cause that’s what you’re doing.  Seriously. You’re about to go ten rounds with your partner because they misinterpreted what you meant, or maybe you meant it, but only because YOU misinterpreted THEIR taking…